Now I’ve decided that there is a 99.9% chance that he will be on a no show on the video chat tonight, so I have relaxed again. Admittedly if he calls I will be so stressed that he won’t like me and realise that I really am much too old for him.
However, for now I have gone back to the drawing board. Or the dating board perhaps is more accurate.
I am pretty certain that the site I am on is really a waste of my time, even a new friend has advised me to look at different options. Of the guys within a certain age group of myself 75% not my type 15% only after sex with no conversation 5% fake and 5% not interested in me.
So before I leave I have decided to go a little crazy and just like anyone who looks remotely possible and see what happens. Up until now my likes have been extremely sparing. I think I’ve done it maybe 5 times. Most of the time they are fake or they have already found someone and are no longer using the site.
So unsurprisingly it is 10.18 and no sign of a video call. I know you are all as shocked as I am about this 😆🙄.
So how many catfish does that make now. Lets recap:
Fake man of my dreams
An exotic dancer
A pilot
The engima
and now the Danish/Swedish chap
So lets see where this new approach takes us.
I'm thinking of making a new game out of this online dating. 80 men around the world.
I want to see how many countries of origin/ancestry I can tick off chatting to 80 different men.
How many do you think I can manage?
So far I have managed English, Irish, Scottish, Australian (somehow the dating app had sent him my profile despite the fact he loved in Australia, Romanian, French, Swiss and Dutch 50/50 in one man. Brazilian/indian in another man. That's not bad going.
Obviously I can only count the men that have actually discussed it. It's not the sort of thing I tend to ask in case I accidentally offended someone.
So lets see how I do shall we?