Flings, Fails, and Forties Tales

When age and ignorance collide


08/05/2025

When age and ignorance collide.



The relief I felt from achieving such a small act was ridiculous, but next up I had to peruse the suggested matches.

 

Now I'm a realist so I was not expecting George Clooney or Henry Cavill to be there just waiting for my arrival but I'm not quite sure I had prepared myself for the variety of mug shots available.

 

At this stage I hit epic fail no.2. 

Everyone knows which way to swipe to like someone right? Wrong. 

I had seen it on telly, heard jokes about it but at that moment I could not remember for the life of me. Thank you Google for clarifying.

 

So there I was merrily swiping left, over and over and over again.

This was not looking hopeful. In my haste to find someone half decent I swiped left and then changed my mind.

So I stupidly swiped right to get it back. 

Rookie mistake, there is NO getting it back and all I managed to do was like the next guy. 

OMG!! Could I have picked a worse guy to accidentally like. No!!! Is the simple answer. 

The best way I could describe this chap would be an extremely overgrown spotty teenager who hadn't left his gaming room for over 2 decades to wash or change clothes and certainly not to look in a mirror. 

 

I tried everything to Unlike, I even headed back to Google for advice but no joy. 

Once you like someone there is no taking it back.

It's safe to say at this stage I put down the phone and walked away.



48 hours of chaos followed

 

My world went bonkers during the next 48 hours. 

I received over 200 likes and messages from over 100 other men. I understand now that the ratio on the site is 75% men, so this is a reasonably average response but not one I had been prepared for.

 

My phone was pinging constantly and I couldn't concentrate. It was at this stage I had to turn notifications off!

 

I was determined to only log in and check at lunch and when I sat down briefly before bed. 

However even then I couldn't face going through 200 likes, so I just read the messages and looked at their profiles. 

 

As it turned out this task didn’t take too long as most of them were instant, No Thank You!

 

I had promised myself to try and be open minded, so I replied to a few despite the fact that I didn’t feel an attraction or I got that gut instinct that something was a bit off. 

 

That was when I had the pleasure of meeting my first psycho stalker.

 

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